La la la love.

When I was a young girl, I believed love would be just like the fairy tales.

A young prince charming would ride past on his horse and propose a marriage within the space of 3 minutes!
…….no I’m joking. But hey I’m back and with quite a personal post. So let me start again.

When I was a young girl, I believed love would be like the fairy tales, like the movies. With the red roses, romantic walks, running to the airport to stop the one you love getting away.

But real love, well my love, wasn’t that.

Truth is, love was never supposed to be like the movies or the cartoon fairytales. Love works in such a different way.

My kind of love is having my boyfriend give me half his food even though I said I wasn’t hungry, it’s waking up at silly o’clock to his snoring and holding back the urge to kick him off the bed. It’s taking the ultimate piss out of each other in public just to try and embarrass each other more. It’s the edgy fights but the memorable make ups.

Love isn’t meant to be pretty and romantic. It is falling through life with your best friend and being so happy doing so. It’s about sometimes feeling unstable in life but stable with them. They’re your worst person but most favourite person all wrapped into one.

I found my love at the age of 12 in a school surrounded by morons. I found my love in a pact hallway where all I can remember is his smirk. I found my love in an empty detention classroom where he would wait for me to escape.

It isn’t easy love, but it’s a ride I will never be getting off.

Love isn’t what they teach us from a young age, my love couldn’t be more different. But my god it’s my own little fairy tale, I hope to be writing for many more years to come.

Love is unwritten, its a clean page for two people to rewrite. And I’m still learning and writing everyday.

7 years on and still blossoming.

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Abortion, yes I said it. ABORTION.

Okay, this is a big topic that many people are going to have a strong opinion on. But I really need to get this topic out the way and spoken about because I am sick to death of seeing the same nasty comments about such a big choice.

Have you seen those kind of posts on Facebook that are along the lines of “When is it okay to kill this?” then shows three stages of pregnancy, or those big picture posts with bold lettering about how wrong abortion is. Well I fucking have.

THIS HAS GOT TO STOP. Ladies (and men), you have got to stop publishing these kind of comments about such an hard hitting subject to some girls. Many of these people who post these kind of comments has never even had to go through an abortion. Let me get this straight, so abortion is wrong? So for a girl to be raped and now impregnated, your telling me she has to live with that experience? You’re telling me that a young 16 year old girl has to bring up a child even though she knew she wasn’t ready or fit enough to be a mother? You’re seriously saying to girls that whatever way they got pregnant whether it was rape or stupidity they have no right in having an abortion? When in the first weeks of pregnancy that egg hasn’t even been developed yet to call that a child.

Are you actually kidding me?

Okay, let me be reasonable. Yes, its stupid for a young girl to be having sex unprotected to even get herself pregnant. But she’s young and she’s learning, she cannot be a mum…but you’re letting her read posts that encourage her to bring up a child with no money, no knowledge and no love? Yes, a woman who has been sexually abused can still have the strength to bring up her abusers child completely by herself, but for that one female who can’t live with the terrible thought, you’re letting her read these posts that call her a monster for aborting a child she knew she couldn’t cope with?

I have never been more angry with females who believe it is okay to let these women, who are battling this decision, to portray themselves as monsters just because they’re not able to give that child what it needs.
Becoming a parent is an amazing thing, an amazing thing that needs love and money. Not for someone to bring into the world when they just simply cannot do it.

I am always, and I mean always fair when it comes to peoples opinions, but by god this one has to stop! I agree that many women don’t believe in abortion, I never did. But I never broadcasted that opinion all over social media for another female to see who is going through that, to them push them into the wrong choice. How can older women believe it is okay to publish this message for young girls? Regardless what you believe in or not, making another individual feel like a monster for a decision that they just had to make, is disgusting.

People need to think about the things they are sharing on social media. I never truly understood how much a status, or a tweet could really affect someones life choice. Its crazy that in this society, the media is something we all listen to. And to see nasty opinions about such a big life choice, is straight up wrong.

Always stand up for what you believe in, but never let another person suffer. Period.