Abortion, yes I said it. ABORTION.

Okay, this is a big topic that many people are going to have a strong opinion on. But I really need to get this topic out the way and spoken about because I am sick to death of seeing the same nasty comments about such a big choice.

Have you seen those kind of posts on Facebook that are along the lines of “When is it okay to kill this?” then shows three stages of pregnancy, or those big picture posts with bold lettering about how wrong abortion is. Well I fucking have.

THIS HAS GOT TO STOP. Ladies (and men), you have got to stop publishing these kind of comments about such an hard hitting subject to some girls. Many of these people who post these kind of comments has never even had to go through an abortion. Let me get this straight, so abortion is wrong? So for a girl to be raped and now impregnated, your telling me she has to live with that experience? You’re telling me that a young 16 year old girl has to bring up a child even though she knew she wasn’t ready or fit enough to be a mother? You’re seriously saying to girls that whatever way they got pregnant whether it was rape or stupidity they have no right in having an abortion? When in the first weeks of pregnancy that egg hasn’t even been developed yet to call that a child.

Are you actually kidding me?

Okay, let me be reasonable. Yes, its stupid for a young girl to be having sex unprotected to even get herself pregnant. But she’s young and she’s learning, she cannot be a mum…but you’re letting her read posts that encourage her to bring up a child with no money, no knowledge and no love? Yes, a woman who has been sexually abused can still have the strength to bring up her abusers child completely by herself, but for that one female who can’t live with the terrible thought, you’re letting her read these posts that call her a monster for aborting a child she knew she couldn’t cope with?

I have never been more angry with females who believe it is okay to let these women, who are battling this decision, to portray themselves as monsters just because they’re not able to give that child what it needs.
Becoming a parent is an amazing thing, an amazing thing that needs love and money. Not for someone to bring into the world when they just simply cannot do it.

I am always, and I mean always fair when it comes to peoples opinions, but by god this one has to stop! I agree that many women don’t believe in abortion, I never did. But I never broadcasted that opinion all over social media for another female to see who is going through that, to them push them into the wrong choice. How can older women believe it is okay to publish this message for young girls? Regardless what you believe in or not, making another individual feel like a monster for a decision that they just had to make, is disgusting.

People need to think about the things they are sharing on social media. I never truly understood how much a status, or a tweet could really affect someones life choice. Its crazy that in this society, the media is something we all listen to. And to see nasty opinions about such a big life choice, is straight up wrong.

Always stand up for what you believe in, but never let another person suffer. Period.

Tinder? Really?

So, okay, I need to express how I feel about this new popular app (well not so new BUT) ‘Tinder’ am I the only person who doesn’t understand the concept?

Okay, now I get it, many people are attracted to others through their appearance. But why produce an app that is entirely about the way someone appears? You’re probably thinking – “Here she goes again, talking about body image” but guys seriously?! Tinder?!

Right, so we swipe left for ‘omg, yes’ and swipe right for ‘ew no’ someone help me understand why!? Oh and wait it gets better, when someone has also swiped left for your picture you have found a match, WOO. There’s also a ‘superlike’ button for when you really, and I mean really like someones photo…or their APPEARANCE.
But I was thinking, couldn’t there be catfishes on Tinder? Couldn’t they all be fake images? But researching into the app, I found out; Tinder only works if you have a Facebook account so their is “no way this app can be full of catfishes” But guys, come on now, on my Facebook my age is apparently 21 (don’t judge me, I was 12 when I created my Facebook) So anyone could pretend to be older? Younger? Even have fake Facebook pictures? Ooooo, I know, scary!

However, jokes aside and on a serious note. I really do not like this app. ‘Tinder’s app has been estimated 50 million people using the app every month with an average of 12 million matches per day’ let me adapt on this, so that’s around 10% of the population in some areas? I knew the world loved a bit of muscle and a ‘banging’ cleavage but how can 10% of a certain areas population, basically admit that they only go for a person if they fit the standards they have built. WAKE UP PEOPLE.

“Dad, how did you meet mum?” – “Well Son, it was in 2016 when I swiped left for her picture, she had her legs out, a good set of boobs and oh her eyes were alright too. She swiped left for me aswell and it was then a match at first swipe!” This will be the conversations dads have with their children in 5/10 years time! Where has the humanity gone? What happened to meeting someone OUTSIDE? Someone catching your eye because their smile was so bright? Everything is social media now and I get that, marketing through social media is through the roof and beats print hands down. But dating through social media is one thing I will never understand.

Tinder? No thank you.